the hardest part
Friday, April 9, 20102:40 AM
yes. people do take advantage of you especially when they happen to be your close friends. When given feedback, they may not accept it with a open heart as hearing the truth are always the hardest part. even me myself dislike receiving feedback. i am always been told that i will be facing challenges and that i must be able prepared to face them and learn to deal with such situations. but how do you feedback to someone whom you are close with at work about him/her work wise when i myself have been in their shoes? how do you say no in terms of telling someone that ''even though you are my friend, i am not able to give you what you want" or delegrate someone without being complain of being naggy? i know i should put aside friendship when it comes to work. and i know i should be brave and inform mj of my struggles without being scared of what they might think of you. the hardest part is to pleased mj and my other partners
i may be the most mischievous partner, always wanting to have it her way and giving mods a hard time (i think but yet hardworking). having to be in their shoes right now, i regretted doing those silly things i have done before. it makes me realise that there are always a reason of everything they make me do certain things i dislike. i realise that people will only understand when they are in the shoes of others. trust me, i know.
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